THE SITUATION

FOR ALL OF YOU WHO DONT KNOW THE SITUATION OUT THERE. HERE IT IS.  I HAVE BEEN WITH MIKE FOR 5 YEARS IN JANUARY.  AND THIS YEAR WAS THE FIRST YEAR HIS STEP MOTHER DECIDED TO INVITE HIS EX TO CHRISTMAS DINNER.  SO YEAH WE BOTH FELT DISRESPECTED BY THIS SINCE NO ONE ASKED US IF WE CARED THAT SHE WOULD BE THERE.   I GET ALONG WITH HIS EX JUST FINE BUT I DONT WANT TO SPEND MY CHRISTMAS NIGHT WITH HER. IM SURE ANYONE WHO HAS THE SAME SITUATION AS WE DO WOULD FEEL THE SAME WAY.

DISRESPECT!!!!

I HAD A GREAT CHRISTMAS FOR THE MOST PART .. THE DAY WENT GREAT UNTIL THE END…. AND THEN MIKE AND I WERE VERY DISRESPECTED!  IM NOT GOING TO GO INTO DETAILS… BUT JUST LET ME SAY THAT IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN! AND THAT I HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR A FEW CERTAIN PEOPLE!  AND I WILL NOT SHOW ANY RESPECT FOR THEM EVER AGAIN!

ABC MEME

The Letter A Are you agnostic? No.

What is your age? 23.

What annoys you? Being late ..being rushed… people who complain about money issues to people who dont have money. you know those peole who have money but dont think its enough.

The Letter B Do you like bacon? Yes

 What is your birthday? September 18th

Who is your best friend? Mike and my mom .. and two others that i am  really close  to

The Letter C What is your favorite candy? pez! candy drops too 

Who is your crush? Brad Pitt, Ben Rothsburger

 When was the last time you cried? its been a while

 The Letter D Do you daydream? yea sometimes

 What is your favorite kind of dog? lil pugs… there faces are too cute

 What day of the week is it? Thursda

 The Letter E How do you like your eggs? Runny with scrapple and bacon or scrabbled with cheese

Have you ever been in the emergency room? Yes.

What’s the easiest thing to do? Love my kids.. my family

The Letter F Have you ever flown in a plane? NO

 Do you use fly swatters? yes but my stupid dog chewed mine up:(

 Have you ever used a foghorn? No

 The Letter G Do you chew gum? Yes.

Are you a giver or taker. I am a giver .

The Letter H How are you? Very stressed!

What’s your height? 5′6

 What color is your hair? Brown

The Letter I What is your favorite ice-cream? Strawberry

 Have you ever ice-skated? no

Do you play an instrument? No.

 The Letter J What is your favorite jelly bean? The pink ones

Do you wear jewelry? yes love jewelry! 

Have you heard a really hilarious joke? Nope

 The Letter K Who do you want to kill? NO ONE!

 Do you want kids? I have 2 thats all i ever wanted

Where did you have kindergarten? Delmar Elementary

 The Letter L Are you laid-back? Most of the time

 Do you lie? I try not to

 Do you love anyone? a bunch of people

 The Letter M What is your favorite movie? the notebook

 Do you still watch Disney movies? yes with the kids all the time

 Do you like mangos? no

The Letter N Do you have a nickname? missy..lissa

 What is your favorite number? 7

Do you prefer night or day? night everything is quiet around here at night. 

The Letter O What is your one wish? That chritmas is calm no drama and doesnt make me go into debt

 Are you an only child? No

 Do you wish this year was over? YES!

 The Letter P What is one fear that you are most paranoid about? my children getting hurt and me not having them anymore

What personality trait would you look for in someone you wanted to date? Honesty would be nice

 The Letter Q Are you quick to judge people? Sometimes, but I try not to.

 The Letter R Do you think you are always right? No and been proven not to be

Do you watch reality T.V.? a little

 What is a good reason to cry? Any reason, if you feel the need then do.

 The Letter S Do you prefer sun or rain? Sun

Do you like the snow? a little but not alot just enough to go sledding

 What is your favorite season? Summer

The Letter T What time is it? 3:32pm

 What time did you wake up? 9 am

 When was the last time you slept in a tent? may or june of 2004

 The Letter U Are you wearing underware? yes

 The Letter V What is the worst veggie? cooked carrots eck!

 Where do you want to go on vacation? somewhere very warm

 What was your last family vacation together? mike and i went camping with his sister and her kids and hubby. but mike and i with the kids never .

 The Letter W What is your worst habit? biting my nails and cursing.

 Where do you live? Maryland

The Letter X Have you ever had an X-ray? Yes

Have you ever seen the X-Games? nope

 Do you own a xylophone? nope

 The Letter Y Do you like the color yellow? Yes its my favorite

 What year where you born in? 1983

 What do you yearn for most? to be happy and to not be in debt

 The Letter Z What is your Zodiac Sign? virgo

 Do you believe in the Zodiac? somewhat

 What is your favorite zoo animal? monkeys and jaguars

 If you feel like doing this meme consider yourself tagged!

JUST SOME THOUGHTS

GEEZ CHRISTMAS IS 6 DAYS AWAY AND I HAVENT GOTTEN ANYTHING REALLY FOR ANYONE.. KAMRYN IS DONE .. GOT A FEW THINGS FOR MAIA AND JADEN… NOTHING FOR ANYONE ELSE. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO GET MAIA AND JADEN! I ASKED THEM JADEN SAYS HE WANTS A GREEN MOTORCYCLE AND A GREEN TRACTOR LOL.. MAIA SAID SHE DIDNT KNOW.  I HAVE NO CLUE ON WHAT TO GET THEM. ANYWAYS ME AND KAMRYN ARE GOING TO GET OUR HAIR DONE TODAY WHOO HOOO I REALLY NEED SOMETHING DONE TO MY HAIR .. SHE IS GETTING HER FIRST HAIR CUT … JUST A TRIM I WANT HER TO HAVE LONG PRETTY HAIR. HOPEFULLY SHE WONT MOVE AND WIGGLE TOO MUCH . I LOVE GETTING MY HAIR CUT ITS LIKE A BRAND NEW YOU KWIM?

I WENT TO MY FIRST PLAY DATE TODAY WITH THE NEW GROUP I JOINED.. ALL THE LADIES ARE VERY NICE AND ALL THERE KIDS ARE JUST SO ADORABLE.  THE KIDS GOT TO SEE SANTA.. WILL DIDNT LIKE HIM AT ALL HE JUST STARTED CRYING.. KAMRYN REALLY SUPRISED ME LAST YEAR SHE FLIPPED OUT EVERYTIME SHE SEEN SANTA … BUT THEN AGAIN LAST YEAR SANTA DIDNT HAVE STICKERS AND A CANDY CANE LOL.  BOTH KIDS HAD ALOT OF FUN AND SLEPT THE WHOLE WAY HOME.   

THIS PAST WEEKEND

THIS PAST WEEKEND WAS HECTIC! FRIDAY MY NEPHEWS  STAYED THE NIGHT ALONG WITH MAIA AND JADEN. MIKE TOOK ALEX HUNTING SAT MORNING. HE LOVED IT! NOW ALL HE KEEPS ASKING FOR , FOR CHRISTMAS IS CAMO CLOTHES SO NEXT TIME HE CAN LOOK LIKE HIS UNCLE MIKE LOL. SAT MORNING ME , JAKE , KAMRYN , WILL, MAIA , & JADEN ALL MADE ORINAMENTS FOR THE GRANDPARENTS FOR CHRISTMAS .. THEY LOVED MAKING THEM.. THEY LOVED PAINTING THEM EVEN MORE.. I HAD A HUGE MESS TO CLEAN UP AFTERWARDS .. I LET THEM ALL HELP MAKE THE DOUGH AND THE SHAPES.. ALOT OF THEM DIDNT TURN OUT SOO WELL.. JADEN TRIED MAKING A DUCK AND OF COURSE HE HAD TO PAINT THE DUCK HIS FAV. COLORS GREEN AND BLACK LOL.. MAIA MADE SOME HEARTS THAT TURNED OUT REALLY NICE.. SHE MADE HER DADDY REALLY PROUD WHEN SHE DECIDED TO MAKE A SPECIAL HEART FOR HIS GRANDMOTHER WHO PAST AWAY LAST YEAR.. SHE SAID SHE WANTED IT MAKE IT FOR HER GRAVE SO SHE WOULDNT BE LEFT OUT OF CHRISTMAS! SUCH A SWEET GIRL.  THE TROUBLE CAME ON SUN. JADEN WAS BEING MEAN AND BAD.. HE WAS HITTING HIS SISTERS AND WHEN HE WAS PUT IN HIS ROOM IN TIME OUT HE GOT A PEN AND DECIDED TO COLOR ON EVERY WALL IN HIS AND WILLS ROOM … GRR I WAS SOO MAD BUT I WAS EXPECTING FOR ONE OF THE KIDS TO WRITE ON THE WALLS EVENTUALLY JUST NOT JADEN HES USUALLY THE GOOD CHILD.  MIKE DECIDED TO HAVE A LONG TALK WITH HIM..I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH IT WILL HELP THOUGH SINCE HES ONLY FOUR MOST OF IT PROBLEY WENT IN ONE EAR AND OUT THE OTHER. BUT FOR THE MOST PART IT WAS A GOOD WEEKEND. JUST A LITTLE CRAZY AROUND HERE WITH ALL THE KIDS HERE.

YEA

My phone is still alive!! I am so lucky.. I found out yesterday that I dont have insurance on my phone! That would of meant i wouldnt have a phone anymore if it had broke! luckily it didnt .

I have a few reasons Im happy today… one I get one of my christmas presents tonight and one tomorrow… my mom is leaving town until the 23rd so she wont have time to get it done when she gets back , so i get it tonight and one tomorrow.. she leaves tomorrow. Tonight I am getting my nails done and tomorrow im getting my hair cut and dyed!! Im excited… my hair is in desperate need of it. 

and the last reason im happy today because its 10:15 and my babies are still asleep.. witch means I get some quiet computer time with out them climbing all over me .  hmmm maybe ill get some stuff done in the house when im done this.

CRUSHED

My poor phone! My son decided he wanted to play with my phone… witch I usually let him after I turn it off because he always seems to call my step fathers brother Craig. This wouldnt be a problem except my step father gave me the phone the day before he past away in july and Craig still has the number in his phone under Smitty he just cant seem to erase his name and put mine.. witch i can totally understand. My voicemail on the phone is just the number instead of me speaking because i cant seem to erase smittys voice off of  it. so i just switched it over to the number recording.  So while Will is playing with the phone he decides to put it in the dogs water bucket … by the time i found it , it was lying on the kitchen table soaked!! water was pouring out of it:(  I almost cried! If it was any other phone it wouldnt upset me as much .. but its not and it did!  so I let it dry out all night and this morning i put it back together and it workes yea …. well sorta it now blinks on and off! the flash from the camera turns on and then it stops working… so im guessing it still needs more drying out to do.. I hoping!

New Group!

okay so i was apart of these two groups that do playdates for the kids. well they never had any playdates set up anyway but was still a little upsetting that they were deleting the groups. so i had to find another one.. Well my other future SIL  has a group called JM . I wasnt sure if she would let me be apart of the group because my bfs ex is apart of the group.. but they both said ok … so im excited because i know they do alot of activities with the kids and my kids really need to be around other children there ages.  At first I was nevious because I hadnt seen a forum like hers before and had no clue what I was doing. but now I got the hang of things and I really like the group. There are alot of really nice ladies in the group and alot of children. All kinds of stuff to do in the group . they have playdates every week and mom nights and games . Its a really nice group. Thanks Tricia and & Elise for letting me be apart of the group!

They are having this christmas party coming up. I could go but I dont think I will just because all the ladies who have been members of the group have earned there right to go to the party buy hosting playdates and since I am new I dont really think I should go .. I havent earned the right to be at the party. Its like getting a new job and two weeks later they are handing out christmas bonus’ .. I wouldnt expect to get the same amount of a christmas bonus as the people who have worked there all year round.

I hope all the ladies have a great time !

THE PARADE

I went to two parades this year.. I went to seafords parade with my future SIL her son was in the marching band. It was soo cold outside.. I was freezing . but the kids didnt complain once about how cold it was. Jaden really loved seeing the Monster Trucks as he calls them …I call them redneck trucks. lol . and then on sunday  we packed the kids up again and went to salisburys parade again my future SIL  son was in this one too in the marching band. He did an awesome job playing his trumpet! It hard to believe that he will be a teenager in Feb. The kids had a really good time at the parade sunday. The kids got all kinds of candy and there daddy bought them cotton candy. they were being soo good . they really deserved the sugar rush they got lol. I got a few good pics of Maia and Kamryn sitting on the sidewalk trying to keep each other warm. Kamryn really loves her big sister. My future SIL  got some video tape of all the kids singing and dancing to the bands. she got really good video of Kamryn and Jaden dancing on the street, it was soo cute.